Episodes

Feb. 7, 2023

BONUS EPISODE: Wix and Vibes Luxury Candles Brings Some New Valentine's Day Ideas

Melvin Johnson, CEO Candle Maker at Wix and Vibes joins me to talk about how to level up your Valentine’s Day with the limited edition box set perfect for a romantic experience like no other. It has been less than two years since the inception of Wix and Vibes, and they have already established partnerships with Nordstrom, relationships with non-profit organizations in the Houston area, and found a niche market of celebrities and athletes including James Harden who can’t get enough of the Wix an...
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Jan. 17, 2023

Melissa and I think we are hilarious

"Did we just become best friends?!" I've known Tony for 20 years but his wife is my new favorite gal pal. We talk about: Us being banned a bunch of times for Facebook comments Meeting mom friends but then things get weird We create a new character that is a real estate agent that thinks he can win fights, isn't afraid of blood but is afraid of the dark and a bunch of cool things Texas vs. Florida Robots Day Drinking with Seth and Lizzo New careers: Ancient Alien Theorist and Paranormal S...
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Jan. 10, 2023

Mental Health with JP part 2 - 2023's Self-Improvement resolutions

Mental Health with JP part 2 - 2023's New Year's Self-Improvement resolutions The part 2 of 2 episode revisiting last year's observations of what needs improvement in our lives so we have the goals to keep each other accountable for, We touch on: Damar Hamlin - The wake up call we all needed Moments in pop culture that were a big deal Personal wins and losses in 2022 Which areas in your life we will focus on next year Personal development Parenting flaws Big Time Fresh, Bella Mars and JP...
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Jan. 1, 2023

Mental Health, Imposter Syndrome and Words that Destroy Families

With the most drastic changes to lives in recent years - lockdowns, job loss, school shootings and other topics - taking care of your mental health is more important than ever. JP and I talk about our individual lives and the dark days that brought us to the breaking point where mental health became a priority. Divorce, foreclosure, job loss, death of family members and a bunch of life events can be easier to deal with when spaced out, but when compacted back to back, we talk about how it chang...
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Dec. 2, 2022

Blue State, Red State, My Take, Your Take

As two former Californians, JP and I discuss our stance on guns now that we live in deep red states. After 25 years of friendship, we talk about a subject that we probably wouldn't even consider relevant if we stayed in California. Unchecked mental health undoubtedly plays a part in how young people decide to use their firearm, so we also talk about the ways we are raising our kids so that mental health is a key component of their development. Quick caveat: Neither of us are fully educated on t...
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Dec. 1, 2022

Red State, Blue State, Gun State, Your State

Two Californians move into red states, one into Arizona and one into Texas. The Arizonian says "You own a firearm?!" and the Texan says, "Come and take it". Sorry for the terrible, horrible, no good very bad joke. But yes, the topic of the week is guns. Former fellow Californian JP joins me to check in on how our opinions on guns have changed since we first became friends 25 years ago. We also trade some parenting tips to set our kids up to stand up for others, to think for themselves and to pr...
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Nov. 16, 2022

JP IZ my abandonment therapist

What happens when the ones you count on to be there for you decide to leave the decades of good times, memories and promises of best friends forever without warning or reason? My friend of over 20 years joins me as we talk about the paths we embarked upon after high school and the lows, highs, achievements, loss, love and the reality of expectations. More importantly, we get into how what we separately thought what was rock bottom actually was the step that changed life for the better. Thanks J...
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Nov. 16, 2022

Abuse, Trafficking, Assault and Neglect in Texas Foster Care Will Only Get Worse After Abortion Bans

The subject matter that is referenced in this article may cause distress or discomfort to some sensitive topics around child trauma, abuse, neglect, assault and other potentially triggering information. Reader discretion advised. With the overturn of Roe v. Wade, the implications are catastrophic on so many levels. If the baby is born to a mother under the age of 13, how will she legally work? Does this mean the grandmother is given custody? What if the grandmother is unstable? If a 15 year old ...
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Nov. 16, 2022

Roads? Where we're going, we don't need roads.

Ricky joins me to talk about my strategies on how I help musicians and artists get out of the negative self-doubt and celebrate their progress. But for the two of us....Are we successful or are we just adequate at checking off the boxes on the to-do list that we think makes us successful? For both of us, it took our rock bottom experiences to realize that there may not be a definition or end game. For the ambitious or the serial lifestyle changers who don't see success in their life it might be...
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Nov. 16, 2022

Life is Grape...Soda Henderson

Rapper/singer/songwriter GrapeSoda Henderson talk hustle, drive and hip-hop trivia. I've been working as his manager/publicist for a few years now so we take a look back at the past, present and future of his career and the skills that can make or break an artist's success in the industry. Check him out on: Instagram: @thtgrapesodaboy Facebook: /LifeIsGRAPEsoda Merch: lifeisgrapeclothingcompany.com YouTube: Villa Vibez And all music streaming platforms!
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Nov. 16, 2022

The 27 Club

On this episode, Bella and Ricky run through the list of the infamous 27 Club members and talk about how fentanyl, heroin, and weed affect substance abuse. Then we watch the Stanger Things Master of Puppets scene right after a heated discussion about why I get scared at the movies which then evolves into an argument about the definition of danger. This episode is dedicated to the late legendary musician and drummer, Taylor Hawkins. "Foo Fighters together with the Hawkins family have teamed up ...
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Nov. 16, 2022

Stop Pushing My Buttons

My friend of 18 years Ricky Vorias joins me to discuss music, politics and other things as we go from deep conversations to debates with the goal of annoying me. He succeeds so I annoy him with random facts about the band Queen. Here is a breakdown of the conversations: Pick up the conversation in progress - start Friends with benefits in your 30s - 5m10s Noise Complaints past midnight 10m30s Complaining about the process of making music - 13m50s Music is business, not for the love of music...
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Nov. 16, 2022

She Get it From Her Mama

On this very first episode of BTF, I ask my mom all the questions I've never asked about her time as a lead singer in a classic rock cover band with my dad. From touring across the country to making $1,500 a weekend, we talk about how the early 80s were part of the good ol days where musicians actually got paid.
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Oct. 26, 2022

Abuse, Trafficking, Assault and Neglect in Texas Foster Care Will Only Get Worse After Abortion Bans

The subject matter that is referenced in this article may cause distress or discomfort to some sensitive topics around child trauma, abuse, neglect, assault and other potentially triggering information. Reader discretion advised. Collateral damage to the abortion bans Part 1 of 3: Horrific state of the Foster Care system post Roe v. Wade will turn the system from bad to worse With the overturn of Roe v. Wade, the implications are catastrophic on so many levels. If the baby is born to a mother un...
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Sept. 23, 2022

Roads? Where we're going, we don't need roads

Ricky joins me to talk about my strategies on how I help musicians and artists get out of the negative self-doubt and celebrate their progress. But for the two of us....Are we successful or are we just adequate at checking off the boxes on the to-do list that we think makes us successful? For both of us, it took our rock bottom experiences to realize that there may not be a definition or end game. For the ambitious or the serial lifestyle changers who don't see success in their life it might be...
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Sept. 7, 2022

Life is Grape...Soda Henderson

Rapper/singer/songwriter GrapeSoda Henderson talk hustle, drive and hip-hop trivia. I've been working as his manager/publicist for a few years now so we take a look back at the past, present and future of his career and the skills that can make or break an artist's success in the industry. Check him out on: Instagram: @thtgrapesodaboy Facebook: /LifeIsGRAPEsoda Merch: lifeisgrapeclothingcompany.com YouTube: Villa Vibez And all music streaming platforms!
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Aug. 27, 2022

The 27 Club

On this episode, Bella and Ricky run through the list of the infamous 27 Club members and talk about how fentanyl, heroin, and weed affect substance abuse. Then we watch the Stanger Things Master of Puppets scene right after a heated discussion about why I get scared at the movies which then evolves into an arguement about the definition of danger. This episode is dedicated to the late legendary musician and drummer, Taylor Hawkins. "Foo Fighters together with the Hawkins family have teamed up...
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July 29, 2022

Stop Pushing My Buttons

My friend of 18 years Ricky Vorias joins me to discuss music, politics and other things as we go from deep conversations to debates with the goal of annoying me. He succeeds so I annoy him with random facts about the band Queen. Here is a breakdown of the conversations: Pick up the conversation in progress - start Friends with benefits in your 30s - 5m10s Noise Complaints past midnight 10m30s Complaining about the process of making music - 13m50s Music is business, not for the love of music...
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July 3, 2022

She Get it From Her Mama

On this very first episode of BTF, I ask my mom all the questions I've never asked about her time as a lead singer in a classic rock cover band with my dad. From touring across the country to making $1,500 a weekend, we talk about how the early 80s were part of the good ol days where musicians actually got paid.