Episodes

April 24, 2023

Red Flags in Relationships

JP and Roberta join Bella for this conversation about relationships.
April 17, 2023

Serial, Netflix, Horror Movies and The African Clawed Frogs

We catch up on the details of some murder cases that have come back to life and say goodbye to the African Clawed Frogs who have overstayed their welcome. Also we don't like Game of Thrones so we talk about that too. Hosted…
April 9, 2023

Artifical Intelligence - Scary or Not?

20 years ago, an average citizen thought Artificial Intelligence (AI) was something from a sci-fi movie that was a fictional portrayal of what the world will look like in our lifetimes. Today, workers from nearly all sectors…
April 3, 2023

Marriage...What is it good for?

Three friends who got married in their early 20s discuss their current stages of divorce and have a deep conversation about the emotions - from guilt to strength to empathy. JP's cousin Roberta (a soon-to-be divorced single …
March 27, 2023

The Tinder Experiment with Bella and Melissa Part 1: Bios are a MUST

Melissa and I discuss a selection of Tinder profiles and bust some myths on the quality of the bios. Yes, we read the bios. Tinder verification: real or fake? Constructive criticism of selected profiles Suggestions for edits…
March 10, 2023

Chris Rock - "Selective Outrage" and the Woke Society

Chris Rock made Netflix history with his highly anticipated stand-up special, "Selective Outrage" , as the first comedy special to be streamed live on the platform. "Selective Outrage" was also highly anticipated for another…
Feb. 28, 2023

TikToker Phillip Good and Rockstar John Stella Make the List

Call it fate, a coincidence or pure luck, the collaboration between Phillip Good and John Stella on their new track "Simon Says" was the driving force that landed the track on #88 on the top #100 new releases on Apple Music.…
Feb. 22, 2023

Bella Reads Her Tinder Profile

It's been a little over a year since Bella had an active Tinder profile, so she downloads the app to see what she's been missing. Melissa enters the chat and gives the feedback she needs to hear. Other topics: Who is invited…
Feb. 15, 2023

Advice from our parents that we won't be passing down

New parents often reflect on their own childhoods when laying the foundation for what they want for their first born, taking the good and bad experiences to create a roadmap that leads to an emotionally stable and happy life…
Feb. 7, 2023

BONUS EPISODE: Wix and Vibes Luxury Candles Brings Some New Valentine's Day Ideas

Melvin Johnson, CEO Candle Maker at Wix and Vibes joins me to talk about how to level up your Valentine’s Day with the limited edition box set perfect for a romantic experience like no other. It has been less than two years …
Jan. 17, 2023

Melissa and I think we are hilarious

"Did we just become best friends?!" I've known Tony for 20 years but his wife is my new favorite gal pal. We talk about: Us being banned a bunch of times for Facebook comments Meeting mom friends but then things get weird We…
Jan. 10, 2023

Mental Health with JP part 2 - 2023's Self-Improvement resolutions

Mental Health with JP part 2 - 2023's New Year's Self-Improvement resolutions The part 2 of 2 episode revisiting last year's observations of what needs improvement in our lives so we have the goals to keep each other account…
Jan. 1, 2023

Mental Health, Imposter Syndrome and Words that Destroy Families

With the most drastic changes to lives in recent years - lockdowns, job loss, school shootings and other topics - taking care of your mental health is more important than ever. JP and I talk about our individual lives and th…
Dec. 2, 2022

Blue State, Red State, My Take, Your Take

As two former Californians, JP and I discuss our stance on guns now that we live in deep red states. After 25 years of friendship, we talk about a subject that we probably wouldn't even consider relevant if we stayed in Cali…
Dec. 1, 2022

Red State, Blue State, Gun State, Your State

Two Californians move into red states, one into Arizona and one into Texas. The Arizonian says "You own a firearm?!" and the Texan says, "Come and take it". Sorry for the terrible, horrible, no good very bad joke. But yes, t…
Nov. 16, 2022

JP IZ my abandonment therapist

What happens when the ones you count on to be there for you decide to leave the decades of good times, memories and promises of best friends forever without warning or reason? My friend of over 20 years joins me as we talk a…
Nov. 16, 2022

Abuse, Trafficking, Assault and Neglect in Texas Foster Care Will Only Get Worse After Abortion Bans

The subject matter that is referenced in this article may cause distress or discomfort to some sensitive topics around child trauma, abuse, neglect, assault and other potentially triggering information. Reader discretion adv…
Nov. 16, 2022

Roads? Where we're going, we don't need roads.

Ricky joins me to talk about my strategies on how I help musicians and artists get out of the negative self-doubt and celebrate their progress. But for the two of us....Are we successful or are we just adequate at checking o…
Nov. 16, 2022

Life is Grape...Soda Henderson

Rapper/singer/songwriter GrapeSoda Henderson talk hustle, drive and hip-hop trivia. I've been working as his manager/publicist for a few years now so we take a look back at the past, present and future of his career and the …
Nov. 16, 2022

The 27 Club

On this episode, Bella and Ricky run through the list of the infamous 27 Club members and talk about how fentanyl, heroin, and weed affect substance abuse. Then we watch the Stanger Things Master of Puppets scene right after…
Nov. 16, 2022

Stop Pushing My Buttons

My friend of 18 years Ricky Vorias joins me to discuss music, politics and other things as we go from deep conversations to debates with the goal of annoying me. He succeeds so I annoy him with random facts about the band Qu…
Nov. 16, 2022

She Get it From Her Mama

On this very first episode of BTF, I ask my mom all the questions I've never asked about her time as a lead singer in a classic rock cover band with my dad. From touring across the country to making $1,500 a weekend, we talk…
Oct. 26, 2022

Abuse, Trafficking, Assault and Neglect in Texas Foster Care Will Only Get Worse After Abortion Bans

The subject matter that is referenced in this article may cause distress or discomfort to some sensitive topics around child trauma, abuse, neglect, assault and other potentially triggering information. Reader discretion adv…
Sept. 23, 2022

Roads? Where we're going, we don't need roads

Ricky joins me to talk about my strategies on how I help musicians and artists get out of the negative self-doubt and celebrate their progress. But for the two of us....Are we successful or are we just adequate at checking o…