Stop Pushing My Buttons

WEBVTT100:00:11.800 --> 00:00:13.960Oh, we've got to not firstas much. That was one of the200:00:14.080 --> 00:00:21.760things I know and I'm already consciousof it. Somebody's not not time in300:00:21.800 --> 00:00:26.839place to put put those words andjust to drop them like it's Sir.400:00:27.879 --> 00:00:33.240I know if I'm drinking, thenthe F bomb is everywhere. Oh,500:00:33.280 --> 00:00:36.600I know, me too, andI and I only speak in a Boston600:00:36.640 --> 00:00:42.119accent. Yes, that's fine.One Girl Says Speak Boston. It's annoying700:00:42.320 --> 00:00:46.640to hear because what does that mean? Number One and number two, and800:00:46.640 --> 00:00:49.840then when I get tests like that, I start going to Boston accent,900:00:50.240 --> 00:00:55.000so she wants, and I getmad because it's all the expensive me.1000:00:55.520 --> 00:01:00.399I'm played. What's up everybody?This is big time fresh. My name1100:01:00.439 --> 00:01:06.079is Bella Mars and I'm here todaywith my college buddy. His name is1200:01:07.599 --> 00:01:14.840ricky, Rick Bross, like Rickthe ruler. We're talking about that situation1300:01:15.200 --> 00:01:21.959where there's like a like mine,kind of single mom, and there's like1400:01:22.200 --> 00:01:26.920other people coming in and out oflife and then, yeah, I don't1500:01:26.000 --> 00:01:30.920understand. What would you mind meetingmy kids? Like I'm like, I1600:01:30.959 --> 00:01:34.920don't care, I'm not. I'mnot adopting them. You're not bringing papers,1700:01:36.000 --> 00:01:38.959right. Yeah, I don't mind. I don't mind meeting anybody.1800:01:40.439 --> 00:01:45.519Yeah, well, that's that's oneof the now you got me on edge1900:01:45.519 --> 00:01:49.040with that question. You know.It's like, is this one of those2000:01:49.040 --> 00:01:52.120things where meeting my kids means takekids, this is your new dad.2100:01:53.519 --> 00:01:57.879It's it's crazy because at the sametime it's so different. I know for2200:01:57.000 --> 00:02:04.000me personally, I'm not introed.You think anybody ever until it's like super,2300:02:04.159 --> 00:02:07.439super serious, because I don't.It's not worth somebody getting attached,2400:02:07.959 --> 00:02:10.719like if you're with somebody for twoyears, for example, that's like a2500:02:10.719 --> 00:02:14.960connection you're making with the kids.First of all, the guy or the2600:02:15.039 --> 00:02:17.879other person has to really, youknow, think about I love this girl2700:02:19.400 --> 00:02:22.520and she has kids, but Istill want her. That's a big deal2800:02:22.599 --> 00:02:25.879in itself. So if you goabout doing that and then all of a2900:02:25.960 --> 00:02:31.840sudden you break up that want Umkids and don't have them, you know,3000:02:31.919 --> 00:02:37.879like that's saying. This is me, but like, like, like3100:02:38.000 --> 00:02:40.400me, I've gotten to the stagewhere I haven't had a wife or a3200:02:40.400 --> 00:02:45.280divorce and had a kid nothing.So some people are looking for that and3300:02:45.319 --> 00:02:49.400then that's a way for them tolike cheat and speed up. That ain't3400:02:49.400 --> 00:02:53.319me. So I don't know thatthought process that I never knew that was3500:02:53.360 --> 00:02:58.400a thing. My perception is thatI shouldn't feel this way because I am3600:02:58.439 --> 00:03:04.319this this demograph. But if you'rea single mom, then having a kid3700:03:04.520 --> 00:03:09.439and somebody coming into the relationship withyou, having a kid is like baggage,3800:03:09.599 --> 00:03:13.680which I think it is for alot of people, which is which3900:03:13.719 --> 00:03:17.400is whatever. But I didn't thinkabout the other side where it could be4000:03:17.919 --> 00:03:23.120something that people would actually want,or some guys would actually want, which4100:03:23.159 --> 00:03:28.039I get, because that's like abig ten years, I think, from4200:03:28.080 --> 00:03:34.919you know, meeting, marriage,whatever. Kids skip all that and I've4300:03:34.960 --> 00:03:43.159seen situations where it's, you know, the stepparents are super involved and Um,4400:03:43.199 --> 00:03:45.800you know, they adopt the kidsand it's all that cute stuff.4500:03:46.599 --> 00:03:52.599Everyone gonna drop the stigma about divorceand Um and and step parents and stuff,4600:03:52.639 --> 00:03:57.599because now it's like, you know, a Stepdad isn't the old school4700:03:57.639 --> 00:04:00.520quintes Sachel comes home and fucking beatyou because he's an alcoholic and you know4800:04:00.599 --> 00:04:06.919you're afraid of him. No,step that usually is because the biological dad4900:04:06.960 --> 00:04:11.520just wasn't working out for whatever reason. What's not okay is when you stay5000:04:11.520 --> 00:04:15.000together and you put the kid inthe toxic in your talking between your toxic5100:04:15.040 --> 00:04:19.680relationship. But you know, sothat sucks and, uh, it's a5200:04:19.720 --> 00:04:24.480selfish thing for the parents to do. So I think now it's becoming more,5300:04:25.600 --> 00:04:29.600more, and I'm speaking not asa parent, and it's becoming more5400:04:29.959 --> 00:04:31.879normal. Yeah, yeah, andit's like an almost a negligible thing.5500:04:31.920 --> 00:04:36.199People are calling their Stepdad's Dad,you know, and ship like that.5600:04:36.519 --> 00:04:40.480And Uh, and really, yeah, it's just who do you see as5700:04:40.480 --> 00:04:43.800a father figure in your life?Called that person death? I mean,5800:04:43.839 --> 00:04:48.920for Christ's sake, you know howmany girls called Me Dad? D You5900:04:49.000 --> 00:04:55.319have you have it, and thenyou didn't follow through. But try that6000:04:55.399 --> 00:05:01.000again. Okay, so we're bothalmost are we almost forty? No,6100:05:01.079 --> 00:05:05.519I'M gonna say mid Thirties. Relax, and thirty six. Okay, okay,6200:05:05.560 --> 00:05:14.319relax, I'm thirty seven. Okay, UM, single. So I6300:05:14.360 --> 00:05:17.360don't think. I don't think.It's like I'm having a blast. I6400:05:17.399 --> 00:05:21.439feel like it's I'm good until youknow, my daughter's eighteen. I'm gonna6500:05:21.600 --> 00:05:27.199write, write it out, Um, which is what which is ten?6600:05:27.360 --> 00:05:30.439Ten more years, Um, andthen, you know, I'll think about6700:05:30.480 --> 00:05:34.680it. But to your point,from earlier. How do friends with benefits6800:05:34.759 --> 00:05:39.920even work? Because the only peoplethat are kind of in the same stage6900:05:40.199 --> 00:05:46.160of being single are like mid twenties, where they're still kind of they don't7000:05:46.199 --> 00:05:48.360care, they're not looking to settledown, they're open to the idea of7100:05:48.399 --> 00:05:53.160being fronds with benefits, that theseare blankets stagent in Jamaican. You know,7200:05:53.279 --> 00:05:59.000I'm the situation I brought up earlierwas very specific. Right, yeah,7300:05:59.199 --> 00:06:03.759okay, so generally people, thisis the perception is you can be7400:06:03.800 --> 00:06:09.360friends with a girl, which isfalse, I think, excepting very weird7500:06:09.920 --> 00:06:14.959certain situations, because you end uptalking them. If you, guys,7600:06:15.199 --> 00:06:18.519ask yourself honestly, because you say, oh no, I have a girl7700:06:18.600 --> 00:06:24.199that's a friend. If you honestlyfucking ask yourself that, um is she7800:06:24.319 --> 00:06:27.920really might don't want to hang outwith her if she didn't have a vagina,7900:06:28.600 --> 00:06:31.160tell me the answer is fucking yes, I guarantee you the bomb.8000:06:31.560 --> 00:06:39.319But here's the other thing, though. What does that make us? Right,8100:06:39.720 --> 00:06:44.560friends the girl? Okay, right, but you just countered your own8200:06:45.199 --> 00:06:49.319no, no, I said it'sthere. It's it's Um impossible for guys8300:06:49.360 --> 00:06:56.439to be friends with girls. Acceptinga very specific so, let's be honest.8400:06:56.680 --> 00:07:00.759That's the reality of it. Sofriends with benefits are are like we're8500:07:00.839 --> 00:07:04.680friends. We have not hooked upright, and that would be if we8600:07:04.720 --> 00:07:10.160start hooking up right and then tryto contain this level of friendship and Camaraderie8700:07:10.240 --> 00:07:14.360we currently have. That will neverhappen because if you hook up, you8800:07:14.439 --> 00:07:18.160inherently sex does that to you.What Fox up the relationship? Yeah,8900:07:18.199 --> 00:07:23.879I agree. I don't know,and suck it up. It changes it9000:07:24.000 --> 00:07:29.560and whether it makes it better orworse, it depends on the situation.9100:07:29.879 --> 00:07:34.319But Ninety five percent of the timeusually end and those people not being friends9200:07:34.839 --> 00:07:38.959five years later. You know,what do you think the main what do9300:07:39.000 --> 00:07:41.639you think it is? If youhad a pin? One of them gets9400:07:41.720 --> 00:07:44.720jealous. Yeah, that's what Iwas going to say. One of one9500:07:44.759 --> 00:07:47.800of them takes it's that's easy.One one of them always takes it serious,9600:07:47.839 --> 00:07:53.920more serious than the other, andgets attached and then that causes problems.9700:07:53.959 --> 00:08:00.680That's always a situation and that's that. But I think that there's different9800:08:00.720 --> 00:08:03.519to be said with I said earlier. Well, what what if you're like9900:08:03.560 --> 00:08:07.680truly friends and then you just youconsider a one off as a favor,10000:08:07.800 --> 00:08:13.439like you're driving over to the airport. You know, how could that be?10100:08:13.879 --> 00:08:18.120Well, it could be different likethis way. Less emotional attached,10200:08:18.199 --> 00:08:22.639because depending on the act it's becauseif you have sex with somebody, you're10300:08:22.639 --> 00:08:26.600emotionally attached to him and then,but if you blow somebody, I don't10400:08:26.639 --> 00:08:31.439think you'd probably be that much attachedhim. I don't know. I mean10500:08:31.639 --> 00:08:35.720age is a big factor, butI could agree with yeah, we'll just10600:08:35.759 --> 00:08:39.279like, there's a lot of letterslevels. So it's so. So,10700:08:39.840 --> 00:08:41.679how do you so? What's thedifference between that and friends with benefits?10800:08:41.679 --> 00:08:46.159So how do you not fuck thatup? Well, YOU'RE gonna keep the10900:08:46.240 --> 00:08:52.240true one off situation. Yeah,it as a favor and obviously if that11000:08:52.279 --> 00:08:58.000person keeps requesting that favor, it'snot it's turning into you know, it's11100:08:58.039 --> 00:09:01.919a getting out of hand. Yeah, yeah, so, yeah, I11200:09:01.919 --> 00:09:05.559thought about that the other day,but I think, like friends of benefits,11300:09:05.879 --> 00:09:07.840the one way to find out.I don't know. You want to11400:09:07.840 --> 00:09:13.960do me a favor? I gottaget to Florida, man, I'm all11500:09:13.000 --> 00:09:18.360the way over here. We canif you flying me out there and then11600:09:18.480 --> 00:09:22.279a hotel, I'll think about it. I'll take my decision when I get11700:09:22.919 --> 00:09:26.080who's doing a favor at that point? Only put you up in hotel.11800:09:26.159 --> 00:09:28.600Oh, how do you like thebreakers? That okay, Oh, yeah,11900:09:28.720 --> 00:09:31.039yeah, Oh, can you dome a favor? What do you12000:09:31.840 --> 00:09:35.759how much? Is this friendship plus? It would gradually friendship plus, any12100:09:35.799 --> 00:09:39.759friendship plus. This is friendship.And Hey, if you're with me and12200:09:39.799 --> 00:09:41.840I and Hey, I forgot mywallet at home. Right, we stopped12300:09:41.840 --> 00:09:45.519at gas station. I need youto buy me a pack of smokes.12400:09:45.840 --> 00:09:48.399Huh, well, I wouldn't buyyou a pack of smokes. Hey,12500:09:48.759 --> 00:09:52.200you buy me about and do?Is that gonna ruin our friendship? No,12600:09:52.360 --> 00:09:56.440who cares? No, no,but it's not. Specifically, I'm12700:09:56.440 --> 00:09:58.879not talking about me and you know, but we're the characters in the scenario.12800:10:00.399 --> 00:10:05.759Yeah, I think of it asthe mountain news. It's like,12900:10:05.799 --> 00:10:09.960I'll get you back when you needit. Yeah, exactly. I owe13000:10:09.000 --> 00:10:13.120you one. All right, yeah, I don't know, and I don't13100:10:13.159 --> 00:10:16.159drink about do every day? Youshouldn't. Exactly. That's a good yep,13200:10:16.559 --> 00:10:20.679that's a good God, I amgood. I am good. Put13300:10:20.720 --> 00:10:24.840me up there with the best ofthe best philosophers. I really this is13400:10:26.159 --> 00:10:31.919I'm glad Richard. I remember withyour Oh my God, I'm the most13500:10:31.159 --> 00:10:37.840amazing person. It looks like you'resweaty out there. That's hottest. Fuck.13600:10:37.000 --> 00:10:39.000Is Not even a wind. Andthen I was going to turn on13700:10:39.039 --> 00:10:48.039the fan, but it's probably loud. Oh Yeah's almost or there. Who13800:10:48.039 --> 00:10:52.799am I going to wake up?I'm sure your love it. They hate13900:10:52.799 --> 00:10:58.200me. The only times that thatit's called the guard date on Karens.14000:10:58.519 --> 00:11:00.879Do you have any Karens up inyour name? Were I would have seen14100:11:00.919 --> 00:11:03.600everything that. At this point,the guard gates loved me that I drive14200:11:03.639 --> 00:11:07.799by them all the time and theyfucking wave right. But he calls him14300:11:07.799 --> 00:11:11.039all the time, because I remembera guard gate came one time and I14400:11:11.080 --> 00:11:15.879was just I I think it wasthis bike, I don't know, and14500:11:16.000 --> 00:11:20.039I had to drain the carburetor andthen put gas and so I want to14600:11:20.080 --> 00:11:22.200make sure it works, so Istarted so the guys will go through it,14700:11:22.759 --> 00:11:28.399and literally got called on that andthe guard gate comes and he's like,14800:11:28.799 --> 00:11:31.039he's like yeah, he's like,he's like if you even just like14900:11:31.200 --> 00:11:35.360just do it quiet or at leastaway from, you know, this area,15000:11:35.399 --> 00:11:37.240because and they adjusted. He's like, because we get a lot of15100:11:37.279 --> 00:11:43.519complaints from yeah, like yeah,no, I feel yeah, and then15200:11:43.519 --> 00:11:48.120ever since then I make sure Ijust panic rabbit right in front of his15300:11:48.200 --> 00:11:52.679house every time, because you're notdoing it past quiet hours, are you?15400:11:54.320 --> 00:11:56.919Yeah, oh well, okay,I don't know who said him on.15500:11:58.000 --> 00:12:03.080Then are like seven o'clock pm.And plus they don't have laws here.15600:12:03.080 --> 00:12:07.600They get ruled. They don't haverules, the laws of community respect.15700:12:07.879 --> 00:12:11.320If I hear people out at midnightdoing that ship, no, I'm15800:12:11.320 --> 00:12:13.759not gonna call the cops, butI'm gonna go out myself and be like15900:12:13.840 --> 00:12:18.399Yo, yeah, but then can'tbecause it's like it's a fucking vehicle.16000:12:20.000 --> 00:12:26.840We're gonna do it's true. Sopeople just cant hate because I'm gonna have16100:12:26.840 --> 00:12:33.200a lot of beats coming out ofyour mouth, beats, beets, because16200:12:33.200 --> 00:12:39.919you're you got a lot of fbombs. Who Cares? We're allowed them.16300:12:39.039 --> 00:12:43.720No, I have to edit themout, all of them, not16400:12:43.799 --> 00:12:48.840all of them, just most ofthem. Well, usually if there's a16500:12:48.879 --> 00:12:54.120lot, especially together, then usuallyI'm not saying anything that that worth no16600:12:54.320 --> 00:13:01.159real cut completely, you know,because I that's one thing I hated was16700:13:01.519 --> 00:13:05.879all the F bombs that I saidbut when I say I'm sometimes I just16800:13:05.120 --> 00:13:09.480nail it. So the ones Inailed stick like a gymnast. You better16900:13:09.519 --> 00:13:13.519not beep, you know. Oh, I know exactly what we're talking about17000:13:13.559 --> 00:13:18.000actually. So, Oh, youdo. Okay, this is that scenario17100:13:18.039 --> 00:13:22.759where I want to punch you.Yeah, that's why I'm glad you're not17200:13:22.120 --> 00:13:24.840right next to it. You KnowMe. You should be me too also,17300:13:26.000 --> 00:13:31.120because I've been looking to punch somebodyand he's really been around. Sure,17400:13:31.240 --> 00:13:33.679what is that? What the kidsare calling it these days? Punching,17500:13:35.440 --> 00:13:39.919punching, Gross Punch you, likepunch your face, like I pretty17600:13:39.960 --> 00:13:46.919sure you would jump because of commentslike this. Okay, but you love17700:13:46.960 --> 00:13:52.960it. It fires me up andI think it also makes me laugh.17800:13:52.639 --> 00:13:56.159Yeah, I get fired up alot lately. I'll tell you right now17900:13:56.159 --> 00:14:00.679when I'm fired up about. Ihave on youtube like day because it's on18000:14:00.679 --> 00:14:03.240my computer and I just let itplay or whatever, and I've been watching18100:14:03.279 --> 00:14:09.600queen videos, like the band queen. You know who queen is, right.18200:14:09.159 --> 00:14:15.360Yeah, all of these kids arejust, you know, are finding18300:14:15.360 --> 00:14:20.200out Bohemian rap city and they're like, Oh, does this guy write his18400:14:20.279 --> 00:14:24.960own songs? That's been happening withevery like and it's I'm such an asshole18500:14:24.960 --> 00:14:30.320for being like this and I amrecognized that I'm a Dick. And it18600:14:30.440 --> 00:14:35.919is what it is, though,because that there's no appreciation for the actual18700:14:37.120 --> 00:14:41.279art of music and the people whocame before to make it what it is18800:14:41.320 --> 00:14:46.120today. Somebody said, Oh,I thought it was Bohemian rap city.18900:14:48.159 --> 00:14:50.279No one knows. Well, Imean, in their defense, it sounds19000:14:50.320 --> 00:14:54.919like it, it is, butit's not. But like you know,19100:14:56.799 --> 00:15:01.240so on the tip off, Ithink you're gonna to your therapist. Okay,19200:15:01.279 --> 00:15:03.879I'm gonna be honest. As yourfriends, I feel like there's something19300:15:03.879 --> 00:15:07.480more going on. What's going on? No, because I'm I have a19400:15:07.639 --> 00:15:11.799very thing. Is My favorite bandand I have a very strong affinity for19500:15:11.840 --> 00:15:18.000Freddie Mercury and he's had the biggestimpact on music in society, more than19600:15:18.159 --> 00:15:20.720you know, Madonna or whatever.So for people to not know who they19700:15:20.720 --> 00:15:24.039are and to not know their songs, it's me. This is me being19800:15:24.039 --> 00:15:26.879an asshole and I know that.No, it's not, because I get19900:15:26.159 --> 00:15:31.159the same I feel you. Youknow, Queen's the first album I have20000:15:31.200 --> 00:15:33.480our owned. Really, yeah,I feel you. But, Um,20100:15:35.919 --> 00:15:39.600you can't blame these people. Theydon't know this is when, this is20200:15:39.799 --> 00:15:43.320they were if we were listening toQueen, we were listening to Oldies,20300:15:43.720 --> 00:15:46.679like if we were listening up inBuddy Holly. You know, I think20400:15:46.720 --> 00:15:52.360I'm I'm more upset this. Factis I'm getting old and maybe I should20500:15:52.360 --> 00:15:56.039just look at it from that perspective, like we gotta relax a little bit20600:15:56.039 --> 00:16:03.759here. I'm fired up. Whatisn't music to chill you out? Yeah,20700:16:03.799 --> 00:16:10.759but right now I'm just upset.I feel you. In all seriousness,20800:16:11.240 --> 00:16:15.240I know what you're saying. Everybody'signorant to actual music, where it20900:16:15.279 --> 00:16:18.919came from the roots of what they'relistening to auto tune. All I hear21000:16:18.000 --> 00:16:21.799is, Oh, don't worry,we'll fix it in post. There was21100:16:21.840 --> 00:16:26.480no post back then. There wasno digital recording. How to record on21200:16:26.519 --> 00:16:30.240a tape and then over dubbed,like it's just striking me crazy, and21300:16:30.240 --> 00:16:36.559it's nobody's fault. It's really nobody'sfault, and I used to be okay,21400:16:36.759 --> 00:16:38.480here's a good example. I Dj, do you know what? You21500:16:38.519 --> 00:16:45.360know that and I only did vinyland because I feel like if you knew21600:16:45.360 --> 00:16:48.200how to scratch vinyl and mixed vinyl. You actually know how to fucking do21700:16:48.360 --> 00:16:55.639the art of Dj whereas the computerstuff that was out, it was automatic,21800:16:55.840 --> 00:16:57.559right, spoke it up for you, would put it at the draw21900:16:57.720 --> 00:17:02.639for you, whatever. Yeah,and it took no skill. So it22000:17:02.759 --> 00:17:04.119was just pressed play and go.And I'm like, you know what,22100:17:04.279 --> 00:17:08.680that's stupid. But that was mebeing ignorant to the Times. Because,22200:17:08.960 --> 00:17:11.200guys, what, if you wantto throw a party now, they're gonna22300:17:11.279 --> 00:17:17.720hire the person with the electronic equipment, not the stuff, because it's not22400:17:17.759 --> 00:17:22.799a scratch battle. You know,it's just like so sometimes you're gonna embrace22500:17:22.880 --> 00:17:26.440the change, but it's hard.So what, when we come from what22600:17:26.640 --> 00:17:30.799we know and what we like andwhat we're have an affinity for, what's22700:17:30.839 --> 00:17:38.400that like? Nostalgic? What we'renostalgic for? I feel yeah, I22800:17:38.440 --> 00:17:42.599know food fighter said they made thiscomment maybe like five years ago at this22900:17:42.680 --> 00:17:45.960point, and they said, youknow, they record as a band,23000:17:47.160 --> 00:17:49.119you know, not like individual parts, but they record as a band and23100:17:49.279 --> 00:17:53.559as a whole, and it's notit's it's they try to say as authentic23200:17:53.599 --> 00:17:57.240as they can to the whole processof what they did back in the nineties.23300:17:57.759 --> 00:18:02.799But that's the only that's that's it. That's all I can think of23400:18:03.000 --> 00:18:08.759right now. Get over it,anyway. Okay, I'm over it.23500:18:08.880 --> 00:18:18.200Rands over. I'm not over it, but no, it sucks. It's23600:18:18.240 --> 00:18:22.279sad. It is sad because Iwhat came on the radio the other day,23700:18:22.599 --> 00:18:27.240if not yesterday, two days ago. was six, nine or not.23800:18:27.359 --> 00:18:32.119You're not on the radio, buton my spotify, right, yeah,23900:18:32.640 --> 00:18:40.319Dun cloud something, and I'm like, and even he in an interview,24000:18:40.400 --> 00:18:42.720was like yeah, Bro, allI say is like, have you24100:18:42.799 --> 00:18:49.440listened to my songs? All Isay that. See what what he's like24200:18:49.640 --> 00:18:53.799that. I'm not saying anything,BRO, and I'm like, I know,24300:18:55.279 --> 00:18:57.759but it was. That's that's oneof his songs comes on and I'm24400:18:57.799 --> 00:19:04.200just like this stuff fucking disgrace toeverything. But I mean, okay,24500:19:04.240 --> 00:19:08.039the throwing money at these people,what the fuck? You know what I24600:19:08.119 --> 00:19:15.880do? I do you appreciate himfor telling that truth? He's like,24700:19:17.000 --> 00:19:21.240I know, I'm a ridiculous yeah, I think I like him, but24800:19:22.319 --> 00:19:25.880for but like, let's just talkabout the quality of music. Like,24900:19:26.319 --> 00:19:30.640Oh God, off his music.I mean fun me, but he obvious25000:19:30.680 --> 00:19:33.680he had a great marketing ploy andship yeah, that's all it is today.25100:19:33.920 --> 00:19:37.240And so a lot of the problemsthat they had back in the day25200:19:37.319 --> 00:19:41.960with Queen, when, you know, the management company was making all the25300:19:42.000 --> 00:19:45.240money and they didn't see a dimeand they were starving and stuff. That25400:19:45.480 --> 00:19:49.680problem has not been solved. Thathappening with Queen. It happened with in25500:19:49.799 --> 00:19:52.839sync or whatever. But, like, how do we fix that? You25600:19:52.880 --> 00:19:59.440know, it's sad. You don't, because it's okay, it's music.25700:19:59.559 --> 00:20:04.799Is Not a burning man event.It's not for pleasure, it's for it's25800:20:04.880 --> 00:20:08.440business. Okay, music is business. If it was for pleasure and it25900:20:08.480 --> 00:20:15.839was for like, okay, theorchestra is music. Is Music based on26000:20:17.160 --> 00:20:21.559talent. They get the best violenist, the best people in their craft and26100:20:21.680 --> 00:20:23.519you know, I'll never understand anyof the stuff they do, but you26200:20:23.559 --> 00:20:29.160know, they do incredible things andbut they they're none of them are millionaires,26300:20:29.200 --> 00:20:33.000but but they probably enjoy you knowwhat I mean, right, and26400:20:33.039 --> 00:20:34.720they enjoy it. And that's thething. Like they and they are the26500:20:34.759 --> 00:20:41.039people that enjoy music and harness itand love it like we do. These26600:20:41.079 --> 00:20:42.599people. You gotta look this way. You're gonna wear this, wear this26700:20:42.720 --> 00:20:47.119and you need to your yeah,know, that's that's what they do,26800:20:47.480 --> 00:20:52.000that's it's a business. Jimi Hendricksup and they were told to do that.26900:20:52.000 --> 00:20:55.000That's how they are, that's whothey are. That's you know,27000:20:55.240 --> 00:20:59.319Jimmy Hendricks played the left hand andguitar, bore the scarf around his head.27100:21:00.039 --> 00:21:04.319And now everyone's like whatever their manager, whatever their stylists, says,27200:21:04.960 --> 00:21:10.440um, because it's more of abusiness now. You know, back then27300:21:10.480 --> 00:21:15.319it was like wishy washy, andthen you had superstars like Hendrix, because27400:21:15.359 --> 00:21:19.640all the the times too, it'slike after no, and he's he's all27500:21:19.680 --> 00:21:25.359about peace and yeah, everyone's trippedand they go see Hendrix. He's amazing.27600:21:25.960 --> 00:21:29.480And now everyone loves hendricks. Sonow people, I. can make27700:21:29.519 --> 00:21:33.160money and bag money here. Sonow you get the vultures, you know.27800:21:33.000 --> 00:21:37.799And Yeah, current musicians from likethe nineties. I guess. How27900:21:37.799 --> 00:21:42.119do we solve it? Before Iforget, not here's how we solve it.28000:21:42.839 --> 00:21:48.279We we provide financial literacy to theartist, because, guess what,28100:21:48.240 --> 00:21:52.799the NFL in the I don't knowif other sports places are doing it,28200:21:52.839 --> 00:21:57.079but the NFL is requiring the rookiesto take Um. I think it's two28300:21:57.119 --> 00:22:03.680semesters of financial literacy. Yeah,that is so smart. It's an awesome28400:22:03.720 --> 00:22:08.000move and I think that that's theway that because then pick and choose their28500:22:08.000 --> 00:22:12.200deals and see which ones you know, they won't get fucked exactly. If28600:22:12.200 --> 00:22:15.640they do, it's their own fault. At least they'll know what they're getting28700:22:15.680 --> 00:22:18.519into. So I think financial literacy, because we're not going to change the28800:22:18.559 --> 00:22:23.559companies, so we're gonna change thepeople, the infl yeah, and I28900:22:23.599 --> 00:22:30.519also think this apply. This conceptshould apply to whoever gets voted into any29000:22:30.599 --> 00:22:37.039kind of office politically. They shouldtake a test on what the first ten29100:22:37.079 --> 00:22:41.200amendments are. That's it. Whatare the amendments? Take a little quiz.29200:22:41.519 --> 00:22:44.519What's an amendment three? Amendment four? We all know what amendment one29300:22:44.559 --> 00:22:48.000and two are, but what's therest of them? I don't I don't29400:22:48.000 --> 00:22:52.880know exactly. Political politicians need toknow what they're talking about, because right29500:22:52.880 --> 00:22:56.200now they're saying, oh, they'regonna take our guns. No, Bro,29600:22:56.480 --> 00:23:00.440we can't. It's not that we'renot gonna take your guns. Read29700:23:00.480 --> 00:23:06.160the Damn Constitution before you go outand say all these things. If everybody29800:23:06.279 --> 00:23:10.920read those who is currently holding officeand the craziest they have to pass that29900:23:11.039 --> 00:23:14.480test first. If they don't passthat test, that means they don't even30000:23:14.480 --> 00:23:15.599care. You know what I mean, like if you want to be an30100:23:15.640 --> 00:23:22.319audience defending the government, tests rightin school and ship. And if they30200:23:22.319 --> 00:23:26.519pass another one, doesn't mean they'regonna behave, because the reason they're not.30300:23:26.559 --> 00:23:30.160But if they don't pass do youthink right now Donald Trump would pass?30400:23:30.400 --> 00:23:37.000Yeah, the test, you're you'rekidding me on what? On the30500:23:37.000 --> 00:23:41.240first on the top ten, theamendments of the Constitution? Yeah, yeah,30600:23:41.359 --> 00:23:45.799I think most of the people wouldknow. Absolutely not. I disagree,30700:23:45.960 --> 00:23:52.000wholeheartedly disagree. Well, okay,the point is, even if they30800:23:52.039 --> 00:23:56.480don't know them, if they weregoing to have to take a test,30900:23:56.480 --> 00:23:59.799a bother them? They just studythem, know them, pass the test31000:24:00.000 --> 00:24:03.640and then my point is, ifthey know them or if they don't know31100:24:03.759 --> 00:24:07.920him, you're gonna get the sameoutcome. It would be the level of31200:24:07.960 --> 00:24:11.880effort. I think a lot ofpeople would how much effort did you put31300:24:11.960 --> 00:24:17.200into memorize and just a few thingsto pass the tests at school? None,31400:24:17.279 --> 00:24:19.640okay, ten minutes could study.Well, it would show a lot,31500:24:19.680 --> 00:24:22.839because I'm sure there's it wouldn't showthat much. What would show a31600:24:22.880 --> 00:24:26.519lot. Is this is they're gonnahave a law in place where this is31700:24:26.559 --> 00:24:30.640what Warren Bobby said. I actand and and I'M gonna paraphrase it wrong,31800:24:30.720 --> 00:24:38.880but it's something like this. Peoplein the in the in the in31900:24:40.000 --> 00:24:45.680government, should only be able tokeep their jobs, probably this. They32000:24:45.680 --> 00:24:49.400get fired if their policies end upputting us in debt or losing US money.32100:24:49.559 --> 00:24:55.359Okay, then everybody would shape upquick because they wouldn't have because what32200:24:55.400 --> 00:24:57.240they're doing is acting and self interests. They know what the funk they're doing.32300:24:57.559 --> 00:25:02.119There's every there every I can't evenget into it, but everything they're32400:25:02.160 --> 00:25:07.559doing right now is not in thepublic's interest or what the public wants.32500:25:07.400 --> 00:25:11.880Politics a game and it's a zerosum game in my kin, and I32600:25:11.920 --> 00:25:15.759feel like don't matter whose president,don't matter nothing. I agree. Yeah,32700:25:15.680 --> 00:25:18.920it's gonna Happen and it is whatit is, and I think there's32800:25:18.920 --> 00:25:22.920no way to disprove that, becauseyou can't get in the time machine and32900:25:22.960 --> 00:25:26.440pick someone else and they say,Oh, I told you that would happen.33000:25:26.400 --> 00:25:29.440You know, they can say whateverthey want, but it's not happen.33100:25:29.599 --> 00:25:30.799You don't even want to go herewith me. But look, I33200:25:30.839 --> 00:25:38.839don't I know. Everything was finewhen we were youngsters, Um, and33300:25:38.880 --> 00:25:42.240now they're crazy. So, yeah, I'm starting my own country. You33400:25:42.680 --> 00:25:45.640fix a problem, you get tomake a law, but it has to33500:25:45.680 --> 00:25:52.200be approved by, you know,cabin I thought about moving like I feel.33600:25:52.599 --> 00:25:56.440I mean, I'm a coster RECONcitizen. So did you know that?33700:25:57.519 --> 00:26:02.359I said I'm a cooster reconsider sinceso I can where where you're gonna33800:26:02.359 --> 00:26:04.319move? Let's be honest. CostaRica, San Jose, Costa Rica,33900:26:07.039 --> 00:26:11.319because they're okay, so down there. No, there's gonna be a civil34000:26:11.400 --> 00:26:15.079war here. And like, Ohmy God, Dude, are you?34100:26:15.160 --> 00:26:21.599Are you of America already says thatthere's a civil war coming, but I'm34200:26:21.599 --> 00:26:23.920saying like, people are gonna gotake unto the streets. For Real,34300:26:25.880 --> 00:26:27.720that's already had. That's happening everyday. You're not realized that? No,34400:26:27.799 --> 00:26:30.240I realize that, but I'm nottalking about how it is today.34500:26:30.279 --> 00:26:33.920I'm talking about no, there's notgonna be red coats and blue coats.34600:26:33.920 --> 00:26:37.559There's just not. It's not gonnabe a civil war like that. Ever.34700:26:37.119 --> 00:26:42.799and Um, we are in acivil and a civil war where a34800:26:42.839 --> 00:26:48.000civil divide. Yeah, and that'sgetting worse. But I don't think that's34900:26:48.000 --> 00:26:52.240what that's that's my plan. That'snot by accident. That's why I refused35000:26:52.279 --> 00:26:55.960to feed into it and talk topeople. I feed into it because I35100:26:56.000 --> 00:26:59.079think I watched too much news,because I just get so stressed out.35200:26:59.480 --> 00:27:04.839I want to for Congress. I'mrunning for president, Kennedy hair and I'm35300:27:06.079 --> 00:27:14.720Kennedy, good looking, Massachusetts,Massachusetts. I'm a candidate. I'll be35400:27:15.160 --> 00:27:17.599no, I want to be president. You can be vice present or CO35500:27:17.759 --> 00:27:25.079presidents. I refuse to report toyou. That's facts. You ain't even35600:27:25.480 --> 00:27:30.359reporting to me, sweetheart. You'REgonna report to like the person that reports35700:27:30.400 --> 00:27:33.359to the person that reports to me. After that comment's fuck, you just35800:27:33.400 --> 00:27:38.960got fired. Actually, alright,I want to work with you anyway.35900:27:40.039 --> 00:27:45.039You're you're the worst. I can'tyou want that bunch. They want to36000:27:45.119 --> 00:27:48.720Luke in your house. Okay,okay, so you're in the music.36100:27:48.799 --> 00:27:52.039Let's do this real quick. Iplayed this game the other day with somebody.36200:27:53.519 --> 00:28:02.200Um, so it'll be for eachof the the decade. What is36300:28:02.200 --> 00:28:06.359your favorite song from this whatever decades? And it can be a guest,36400:28:06.440 --> 00:28:10.160because I don't sometimes it's sixties sometimesit's like Seventies. You know what I36500:28:10.160 --> 00:28:15.039mean? M Hm. So,so, starting with right now, who's36600:28:15.079 --> 00:28:21.839your favorite artists? This is notgonna go well because I don't have one.36700:28:22.680 --> 00:28:27.960Yeah, thanks for ruining the game. No, I'm not ruining it,36800:28:29.039 --> 00:28:32.400would be playing it. You're sayingyou don't listen to any music right36900:28:32.400 --> 00:28:33.519now. Is that? Is thatwhat I said? Or did I say37000:28:33.559 --> 00:28:37.640I don't have a favorite artist?Shut up, man. Well, no,37100:28:37.720 --> 00:28:40.920I can't remember. What did Isay? Yeah, that's right.37200:28:41.200 --> 00:28:45.000The second let's say you want tobe a podcast list all right, Um,37300:28:45.119 --> 00:28:51.400what about right now? I'm backon Queen. Yeah, you're doing37400:28:51.440 --> 00:28:55.720the study and research. Yeah,I know, but I mean when I37500:28:55.799 --> 00:28:59.880play the guitar, it's different,like I like to play. Certainly.37600:29:00.400 --> 00:29:03.160Oh, do you watch? Doyou watch that stranger things or no?37700:29:03.519 --> 00:29:08.680Yeah, but I haven't gotten.I've stopped after a season, fucking one37800:29:08.720 --> 00:29:14.160and a half. You don't likeit. After two I didn't like and37900:29:14.200 --> 00:29:17.720I'm just over it. Just stickto four. I'll fill you in.38000:29:18.720 --> 00:29:22.680There's a recap to every season andit's way different. It's this one's more38100:29:22.680 --> 00:29:26.160of a horror movie versus the otherones that were like well, there's a38200:29:26.200 --> 00:29:30.160monster tracing alien movies and monster movies, the ones that have real good build38300:29:30.200 --> 00:29:36.640ups. They need to have agood monster or else it's ruins the entire38400:29:37.000 --> 00:29:40.680movie. Yeah, like it's happeningand I think it's like a serial killer38500:29:40.720 --> 00:29:42.720and it ends up being like,Oh, an ancient curse, and I'm38600:29:42.759 --> 00:29:47.480like, alright, Sonny, I'mback, come back from the other okay.38700:29:47.519 --> 00:29:51.920So I think we would like seasonfour because the scariest part about it38800:29:52.000 --> 00:29:57.000is that it gets people if theyhave issues that they haven't dealt with yet.38900:29:57.799 --> 00:30:03.960The UH, his name is whatever, the Bekna, is like this39000:30:03.079 --> 00:30:10.960really scary person that feeds off offeeds off of the people that have emotional39100:30:11.000 --> 00:30:15.359issues that they need to deal with. So like one kid felt really guilty39200:30:15.480 --> 00:30:18.799that he was in a car accidentwith his friends and the car was burning39300:30:18.799 --> 00:30:25.559and he didn't really kind of helpum so that they took him kind of39400:30:25.559 --> 00:30:32.119out of consciousness and they killed himin real life and in the I don't39500:30:32.119 --> 00:30:33.519know, you just have to seeit, because it breaks me out,39600:30:33.559 --> 00:30:37.559because I'm like do I not haveI like when they were just in the39700:30:37.799 --> 00:30:41.880arcade and the monster was coming,and now it's too involved you know,39800:30:41.960 --> 00:30:47.200like alternate universe, upside down,downside up, and this that all the39900:30:47.279 --> 00:30:49.920kids are growing up. You knowwhat, this weekend I watched season one40000:30:49.960 --> 00:30:55.559through three so that I could justjust remember it all, because there's so40100:30:55.640 --> 00:30:56.839much. They have one more seasonleft, so I just wanted to make40200:30:56.880 --> 00:31:03.000sure that I pick up on everything. They are so adorable when they start40300:31:03.200 --> 00:31:07.519getting into, because people are tellingme to get into it was trailer Park40400:31:07.599 --> 00:31:15.920Boys. What's that on Netflix?What is it called? Trailer Park Boys?40500:31:17.440 --> 00:31:19.559Yeah, that's pretty funny. Yeah, because one of the guy's name40600:31:19.599 --> 00:31:22.440is ricky. So everyone's like,Oh, reggy, Oh yeah, you40700:31:22.519 --> 00:31:27.480like smoking weed, you like smoking. I go oh, yeah, there's40800:31:27.920 --> 00:31:33.880there's one about Canada that's kind oflike that style. It's on Hulu,40900:31:33.920 --> 00:31:36.319though, and I think you wouldlove it. I think you would think41000:31:36.359 --> 00:31:40.880it's pretty hilarious. Um, Igotta I'll figure it out. You Have41100:31:41.000 --> 00:31:47.039Hulu. Maybe I got it allright last time. You did most of41200:31:47.039 --> 00:31:49.680the talking, I think this time, but pretty even. That's why I41300:31:49.720 --> 00:31:53.480tried to scale back, because Idon't like myself. I don't like I41400:31:53.519 --> 00:31:57.599don't either, but I gotta getused to it. Now. We're never41500:31:57.880 --> 00:32:04.920really huh. What are you gonnado after this? Jack off to your41600:32:04.960 --> 00:32:12.920Avatar? I don't like him.Appreciate the honesty. More like that.41700:32:13.480 --> 00:32:15.599What would you say I was?I was I was raised not to be41800:32:15.640 --> 00:32:20.440a liar. No, I don'tknow what am I gonna do. Actually,41900:32:20.480 --> 00:32:23.839I do know what I'm gonna doafter this. I'm gonna Watch sort42000:32:23.880 --> 00:32:29.319of trailer park boys. Well,I got some good fucking ship today at42100:32:29.319 --> 00:32:31.759the dispensary, so I'm gonna rollone up, roll a hog leg up42200:32:31.960 --> 00:32:38.079right and then go into outer spaceand then, uh, watch an episode42300:32:38.200 --> 00:32:44.759trail park boys and then wash upand go to bed. Okay, what42400:32:45.960 --> 00:32:50.640gross? Okay, so if you, if you will jump on board with42500:32:50.920 --> 00:32:53.680stranger things, which just sounds likeyou won't. They have those options where42600:32:53.680 --> 00:32:59.079you can watch for somebody else,you know, you can like, you42700:32:59.119 --> 00:33:01.119can like a sink it up towhere there's an option. They're like,42800:33:01.160 --> 00:33:05.359Oh, this is a watch party, and then the people can get on42900:33:05.440 --> 00:33:08.720that watch party. I like yourred headphones, by the way. Thank43000:33:08.759 --> 00:33:13.640you. They're beat spy DRE.They're very you right now watching panic at43100:33:13.640 --> 00:33:17.279the disco on TV. He's areally good singer, that Brandon Urie,43200:33:17.680 --> 00:33:23.200did you ever listen to panic atthe disco? No, isn't it panic43300:33:23.839 --> 00:33:30.319at the disco? Really can necessaryto get the apt up in the middle43400:33:30.319 --> 00:33:37.119of your band name at the discobout? How wham? Did they have a43500:33:38.400 --> 00:33:43.480Pham One of those bands? Idon't know. I think so. I43600:33:43.519 --> 00:33:45.880think you need to go to bed. Maybe it that was an album cover.43700:33:46.759 --> 00:33:53.880Uh. Queen is the is thethirty third most streamed artists as of43800:33:53.960 --> 00:34:00.680today. Anyway, I could sayyou're you care very much and you're very43900:34:00.720 --> 00:34:06.359interesting. First of all, Idon't really know who. Damn well,44000:34:06.519 --> 00:34:10.320thank you for joining me on thisepisode, episode number two, I think.44100:34:10.920 --> 00:34:17.000Thanks for having alright. Alright,thank you, sir. Signing off.44200:34:17.960 --> 00:34:23.480I'll talk to you sooner than later. Bye. Right, okay,44300:34:23.480 --> 00:34:28.159I'm shutting this off. Thanks forlistening. I'd be like what you heard.44400:34:28.239 --> 00:34:31.039Check out cross the streams media dotcom to hear more episodes of this44500:34:31.280 --> 00:34:36.360podcast and the other shows on thecross the streams network. Don't forget to44600:34:36.440 --> 00:34:40.639subscribe, rate and review on applepodcasts or wherever you download your favorite shows.44700:34:42.000 --> 00:34:45.480visit cross the streams media dot comfor more information. See you next time.